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It is said, “East is East and West is West and the twain shall never meet”.
I beg to differ.
Meet it has, in its responses to women.
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Mid February 2012
West Bengal, India
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Rapes across West Bengal reported.
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The age of victims, mostly late 30’s, single (widowed, separated, divorced) plus two minors, one of whom is deaf & dumb.
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Profile of the aggressors : early to mid-twenties, belonging to a sexually repressed medieval culture. The aggressors include a doctor of a Government hospital.
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A crime occurred
and the reaction it spurred
exposed a frightening mind-set,
of the law-keepers
and the powers-that-be
in holding the victim suspect.
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A cover-up was sought
to cloak the rot
of cowardice and inefficiency,
by focusing on
and alluding to
the victim’s so-called impropriety.
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The overwhelming majority
matched those in authority
in attitude, a society disgraced!
and to put it mildly
to say it kindly
their sympathy, alas! is misplaced.
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Exceptions – Some senior police officials, some Bengali & English media, women’s groups and the miniscule thinking polity, stand by the victims.
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The USA
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A woman speaks (perhaps too articulately for some people’s liking) on women’s’ sexual health and insurance for birth control pills that are used for a host of feminine diseases, at a Congressional hearing about the Obama administration’s contraception policy. The woman speaker, stressed that many women require contraception for medical purposes.
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Like in the case of the West Bengal rape victims, she was attacked by rhetoric that can only be described as misogynistic, vitriolic, base and crude.
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What is this need and this compulsion
to mangle another’s reputation this way?
Is it to deter dissension
or something more grave?
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The attackers were both male & female and their expletive expressions are self-descriptive.
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Implication :
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To dis-empower a woman,
vilify her,
humiliate her &
terrorize her
by attacking her sexually – be it physically and/or verbally.
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And there will be resounding support from men of an identical mind-set
…. and from women who sell out their gender …
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Now there are women
who find pleasure in another’s pain
yes, there are women
who suck-up for their own gain
these are the kind of women
who are more misogynistic than the male
these are the kind of women
who their gender acrimoniously assail.
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